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Don't get me wrong, I like sex, but I want a connection that goes beyond sex while hopefully including it in the relationship at the same time. I believe love should be the foundation, not sex.

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Sex Preferences

I'm aTwink
OutEveryone knows

CBT Preferences

Orgasm during play:Never


EthnicityCaucasian / White
Height183 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorOther
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairShaved
Best featureLips
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionDepression
Endowment (length)Long
Endowment (width)Average
My AttractivenessAttractive


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsYes
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityMy Place
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

SpecialtyComputers / Electronic
Employment StatusStudent
Annual incomeup to $25,000

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness, Passiveness
My perfect matchInquisitive, above all else. There are always things we think we don't want to know or shouldn't have known, but my match would be as inquisitive as I am and capable of turning that inward for self reflection. Try not to be hung up on silly little things like race, age, masc or fem, top or bottom, because these are the things that slow others down.
Our first dateNo, I have to answer this in reverse... Our first date won't happen if you want to do "Dinner and a movie" or "Netflix and chill", even if sex seems like it would be a blast with you. Come on, be creative if possible, take me to someplace new, or to the mall and window shop while we walk and talk and get to know each other.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byBondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isNot Applicable
I am seekingA relationship
I live the lifestyleEvery once in a while
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Depilation / shaving, Enemas / douching / klismaphilia, Foot / shoe worship, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Voyeurism
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter was6 months of online negotiations and I found myself blindfolded, then fully hooded little boy toy face fucked, anal beads (I own a pair now because of this scene) vibrator, WS, showered in chilly water when I was bad once, spit on, and never saw his face t


FetishesArmpits, Exhibitionism, Medical / Enema, Smoking, Tongue Fetish, Voyeurism, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Once a week
Sex isNot that important I'd rather cuddle
Most partners at once:Gangbang
Dirty talkDepends on my mood
Night life:Adult theaters, Raves, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isIt's OK, but I prefer penetration
Anal sex isI love it
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Fruits/veggies, Vibrating eggs/bullets
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Be good and avoid my B's... I don't want to Bleed, Bruise, Burn, Barf, or even think about Bukakai.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyIt's only a want because of my curious nature, I expect I will NEVER find an attractive guy to do this for me... It also has to be below the shoulders. I'm edgy about people SCATtering if I actually cum out and say it. It's only curious because it's one of the few I'll most likely never get a chance to try...
Fantasy locationDark alley, Elevator, Hotel/motel, Movie theatre, Dressing room, Library
Fantasy sex partner:Gay porn stars: Casey Woods, Brent Everett, Brent Corrigan, and a blood red ginger with a mushroom capped cock. Chicks: I can't find the movie any more, but it's something like young girls' fantasies by hustler and the school girl chick and the "step sister" AND her "brother"...

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Experimentation
Role:I prefer both roles
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:Be surprised and taken without any warning
Include sex and orgasm:Sometimes
Response:Compliance or Humble Silence

Foot Fetish Preferences

My fetish role:Sub - Sucking toes & feet
Relationship:Private foot & toe play
My interests:Foot smelling, Foot smothering, Sensual foot worship, Bare feet, Foot massage, Toe sucking, Foot licking, Socks, Foot servitude, Foot jerking
Other activites:I actually have a foot "spa", pedicure set, epsom salts, and everything else I would need to relaxingly wash, pedicure to a degree, and then worship the right feet.
Foot size:Large 9-10
My foot turn ons:When they are clean, it's just a turn on all together to lick starting there, and eventually work my way up the legs to the groin, up the chest to the neck and mouth before going down and sucking the middle leg. LOL.
My turnoffs:Overpoweringly stinky feet, some smell is okay and expected and easy to take care of with the foot spa, and a little patience.